Fear of dating
The roller coaster hesitates for a split second at the peak of its steep track after a long, slow climb.
You know what's about to happen — and there's no way to avoid it now.
It's time to hang onto the handrail, palms sweating, heart racing, and brace yourself for the wild ride down. It is programmed into the nervous system and works like an instinct.
From the time we're infants, we are equipped with the survival instincts necessary to respond with fear when we sense danger or feel unsafe. It makes us alert to danger and prepares us to deal with it.
Feeling afraid is very natural — and helpful — in some situations.
Fear can be like a warning, a signal that cautions us to be careful.
The body stays in this state of fight–flight until the brain receives an "all clear" message and turns off the response.Sometimes fear is triggered by something that is startling or unexpected (like a loud noise), even if it's not actually dangerous.That's because the fear reaction is activated instantly — a few seconds faster than the thinking part of the brain can process or evaluate what's happening. Fear is the word we use to describe our emotional reaction to something that seems dangerous.As soon as the brain gets enough information to realize there's no danger ("Oh, it's just a balloon bursting — whew! But the word "fear" is used in another way, too: to name something a person often feels afraid of.